In Islam, the requirements for marriage include the following:
- Ijaab O Qubool: The proposal and acceptance of the marriage.
- Gawah ka hona: The presence of witnesses.
- Maher ata karna: The groom should give a gift (mahr) to the bride.
The Difference between Farz, Wajib, and Sunnah in Nikah
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Farz
These are mandatory requirements for a valid marriage in Islam. They include the proposal and acceptance of the marriage (ijaab o qubool) and the presence of witnesses (gawah ka hona).
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Wajib
These are necessary actions that are not as mandatory as farz, but still highly recommended. For example, it is wajib for the groom to give a gift (maher) to the bride.
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Sunnah
These are actions that were performed regularly by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and are recommended for Muslims to follow. For example, it is sunnah to perform the marriage immediately after finding a match.
The Requirements for a Valid Nikahnama
A valid nikahnama, or marriage certificate, in Pakistan is a legal document that requires certain information and signatures to be considered valid. According to the Muslim Family Law Ordinance 1961, the nikahnama is a public document with a strong presumption of truth attached to it.
There are four copies of the nikahnama prepared:
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- One each for the Nikah Registrar,
- The Municipal Corporation or Union Council,
- The bride
- The groom
The nikahnama should include details of the bride and groom, the marriage agreement, the dower, and the signatures of the bride, groom, and witnesses. The nikahnama is mandatory for a valid marriage, and no marriage can be registered without the signatures of the bride, groom, and witnesses. The nikahnama is also required for attestation by the concerned department to be considered a valid marriage certificate. The nikahnama is a legal document that can be used as proof of marriage in matters arising out of the nikahnama. The nikahnama is also used to register the marriage with the relevant authorities, such as the Union Council or the National Database and Registration Authority (NADRA). It is important to ensure that the nikahnama is filled out correctly and signed by all parties involved to avoid any legal complications in the future.
Nikah is Fard or Sunnah?
Nikah, or marriage in Islam, is considered a combination of both Fard (mandatory) and Sunnah (recommended) aspects. The Fard aspect of Nikah refers to the obligatory requirements that must be fulfilled for a valid marriage, such as the proposal and acceptance of marriage and the presence of witnesses. The Sunnah aspect of Nikah includes the recommended practices that were regularly performed by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and are encouraged for Muslims to follow, such as performing the Nikah in a simple manner in a mosque with close relatives present.
Nikah Kab Kerna Chahye ?
There are different opinions on this matter. Some scholars believe that Nikah should be performed as soon as possible, while others suggest that it is better to wait until one is financially and emotionally stable. In Islam, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) encouraged early marriage, especially for young people, as it helps to protect their chastity and provide them with companionship and support. It is also important to ensure that one is ready for marriage and has the necessary resources to support a family. Therefore, the decision to perform Nikah should be based on individual circumstances, and it is advisable to consult with a knowledgeable and trusted religious advisor for guidance on this matter.
Nikah Mein Larke or Larki Ki Umar Kitni Honi Chahiye?
The age for Nikah in Islam is not fixed and varies from person to person, depending on their physical and mental maturity. In Islam, the age of maturity for girls is defined as their ability to manage a good life, their level of acceptance of the responsibility of motherhood and child-rearing, and their appropriateness in social behavior. For boys, maturity is defined as their ability to safeguard their possessions from being squandered away and their prudence in spending in a judicious manner. There is a recommendation in the Child Marriage Restraint Act 1929 to further amend the law to enhance the girl’s minimum age of marriage to 18 years and for females at 16 years. Once a person reaches puberty, they are eligible for marriage. The prime age of marriage for girls would depend on their mental and psychological maturity, which may vary from person to person.